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5 Rules of Writing a Children’s Book

Posted on by Karen Cioffi

Children's Writing Tips

As a children’s ghostwriter, I usually work on multiple children’s book projects daily. This usually includes weekends.

I also have a family. So, my plate is FULL.

Juggling all the time, I thought about what it takes to write, not just children’s books but other genres as well.

Here is my list of the 5 most important factors to writing a children’s book if you really, really want to be a children’s author:

1. Make the time.

This would seem like a no-brainer, but you seriously need to prioritize your writing.

With me as an example, there are just so many hours in the day. Something has to give when you’re juggling life, family, and multiple clients.

So, you need to ask yourself one important question:

Do you really, really want to be a children’s author?

If you do:

– Can you get up an hour earlier to get some writing in?
– Can you stay up an hour later?
– Can you squeeze in some time when your baby is napping?
– Can you write during lunch if you work outside the home?
– Can you shoot for just 2500 words per week?
– Can you spend time writing on the weekends?
– Can you use the time you’d be on social media on writing instead?
– Can you use the time you’d be watching TV on writing instead?
– How about during doctor visits, dental visits, etc.?

It’s about prioritizing. It’s about making your desires important enough that you’re willing to struggle for them … to work for them.

I’ve been so busy the last few years that I’ve let my own writing go on the back burner. A possible solution to this is to think of myself as a client who I absolutely must write for.

It’s about making the time, no matter what you have to do.

2. Know what you’re doing.

I’ve written about the importance of learning to write before you jump into writing a children’s book. But it’s so important I’m including it in this list.

While you should learn about writing no matter what genre you want to write in, with children’s writing, it’s essential.

Learn proper grammar and punctuation for writing. It will make a huge difference in how your book appears.

Learn what’s appropriate for young children. Don’t write scenes that could cause a young reader to do something dangerous.

An example of this would be having a young protagonist playing in the street or sneaking out of the house at night.

You’ll also need to learn the basics of how a manuscript should be formatted?

I’ve seen self-published children’s books with no line spaces between paragraphs.

Shame on the author for not doing the research to make the book at least look professional. And more shame on the self-publishing service that formatted it for her.

3. Don’t wait for the muse to come knocking.

As a professional writer, I know that the only way the muse will come for a visit is when I have my butt in the chair and am engaged in writing the story.

Every now and then, I’ll get a client who gives me a story idea or some notes on a story and I’ll sit back and wonder how I’ll turn what I have into a publishable story.

I don’t sit back very long.

I start writing.

Once you start writing, your brain takes over, and the words appear. Those words turn into paragraphs, then chapters.

I think everyone has a muse and it’s sleeping until you focus on your story and actually write. Somehow that wakes the muse up.

4. You’ve got to be observant.

Again, this is true of any writing, but it’s especially true for children’s writing.

Children have their own language.

If you’re able, watch children at play, in a discussion, playing sports, doing school work, eating, etc.

Pay attention to how they move; what they say and how they say it; they’re facial expressions and their mannerisms; and how they dress. If they’re a bit older, around eight and up, observe how they wear their hair. Pay attention to pretty much everything.

You want to make your children’s stories believable, even if you’re writing fantasy or science fiction. A way to help do this is to make the children in the story believable.

If you’re unable to study children in real life, study them in movies and on TV.

5. Read in the genre you want to write.Reading in the genre you write gives you lots of information, especially if the books are recently published by real traditional publishers.

You’ll learn:

– How to write dialogue
– How to format paragraphs and chapters
– How to structure sentences
– Appropriate storylines
– Story structure
– How to create believable characters
– How to structure picture books, allowing for illustrations to help tell the story

The list goes on and on.

Go to your local library and get 10-15 books. Once you’re done with them, get another 10-15 books. Keep going.

Another trick is to write the text in some of these books. It tricks the brain into writing ‘good’ books. Keep in mind this is just to study them.

One important thing to remember is that reading books and writing text doesn’t take the place of taking courses and, if your budget allows, taking advantage of a writing coach or mentor.

So, if you’ve been thinking about writing a children’s book, consider these five rules and get started today.

Children's ghostwriter

I’m a working children’s ghostwriter, editor, and coach. I can help turn your story into a book you’ll be proud to be the author of, one that’s publishable and marketable.

Or maybe you’d rather do-it-yourself. Check out my book, HOW TO WRITE A CHILDREN’S FICTION BOOK. There’s also an online course: FICTION WRITING FOR CHILDREN ECOURSE.

If your children’s manuscript is done and you need help self-publishing, check out WRITERS ON THE MOVE PRESS.

If you’d like to discuss a project, you can contact me at: kcioffiventrice@gmail.com. Or give me a call at 347—834—6700. (Please leave a message- I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.)

 

 

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