Feb 28

Dialogue and Tags

Writing Tips

I’m rewriting a young adult book for a client. It’s over 100,000 words.

With that many words, the author felt compelled to mix up the dialogue tags.

That, though, is never a good idea.

Some of the tags he used were: spat, laughed, teased, smirked, joked, yawned, and sneered.

But my client isn’t the only one who doesn’t realize that there are specific words for dialogue tags. That might be because new authors aren’t familiar with the tag’s purpose.

So, what exactly is a dialogue tag?

According to The Write Practice, “they ‘tag’ the dialogue to a particular character. Also often referred to as an attribution, a dialogue tag is a small phrase either before, after, or in between the actual dialogue itself.”

That puts it pretty simple.

Dialogue tags are phrases that identify who is speaking. They are a must for clarity and in order to keep the reader in the know and involved in the story.

A few examples:

“What was that?” asked John.

“I couldn’t finish my homework,” John said.

John sat on the chair and said, “I give up.”

“If I go to the store,” John said, “I’ll pick up milk.”

So, you can see that dialogue tags are straight forward. They allow the reader to know who’s talking.

The basic tags are said and asked. These tags kind of become invisible to the reader. The reader can acknowledge who is talking while not thinking twice about the tag.

But when the basics just aren’t enough, you can also use whispered, shouted, mumbled. They should be used sparingly, though.

So, going back to dialogue tags that shouldn’t be used, I did a search and was surprised at the results.

One site had a list of dialogue tags that included, emitted, bubbled, chuckled, grinned, sang, smiled, and rejoiced.

Another site had grieved, mewled, bawled, blubbered, fretted, agonized, comforted, admired, hissed, soothed, glowered, placated, assented, tittered, and sobbed, stating they could be used as dialogue tags.

This may be one of the problems as to why some writers feel it’s okay to use these words.

A good way to think about whether a word can be used as a tag, is to think of the word and what it means.

You can’t blubber dialogue.
You can’t admire dialogue.
You can’t comfort dialogue.
You can’t sneer dialogue.
You can’t tease dialogue.
You can’t emit dialogue.
You can’t spit dialogue.

Dialogue tags and adverbs.

This is another common problem that can arise with dialogue and tags – the use of adverbs.

My client did a lot of this also.

Using an adverb after a tag looks like this:

“Don’t bother getting up,” John said angrily.

“You’re beautiful,” John said admiringly.

“Get out of my chair,” John said disgruntled.

Instead of using adverbs, the sentence or paragraph should show how the character is feeling.

Here’s an example:

Ellen couldn’t open her eyes. Crying all night left them swollen and achy. “How could this happen?” she whispered.

Showing what’s going on allows the reader to know how she’s feeling. You wouldn’t need to add “sadly” at the end of the tag.

Do you always have to use dialogue tags?

Another question that can come up about dialogue tags is whether they have to be used all the time.

The answer is, no, as long as it’s clear who’s speaking.

John shook his head. “No way. I’m not going.”

“You’ve got to,” said Pete.

“No, I don’t.”

In this simple example you can see that only one of the dialogue’s has a tag.

The first one notes who’s talking by using: John shook his head.

The dialogue that comes after that is from John.

The third dialogue line is John responding to Pete. As there are only two characters in the scene, the reader will know John is speaking.

Writing dialogue is easy once you get the hang of it.

A good way to learn how to write dialogue with proper tags is to read a lot of traditionally published books. Pay attention to the dialogue and tags.

It’s not that I’m putting down self-published books, I’ve self-published two books. The problem is not all self-published books are done professionally.

Traditionally published books have professionals editing them; they have gatekeepers to ensure the story is quality. They know the ropes and it’s important to learn from books that are done right.

Writing Help

Whether you need help with ghostwriting or rewriting, or coaching, let me take a look at your children’s story. Just send me an email at: kcioffiventrice@gmail.com. Please put “Children’s Writing” in the Subject box. Or, give me a call at 347—834—6700

Let’s get your idea off the launch pad or your outline into a publishable story today!

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May 03

Writing Dialogue? Try These 5 Top Tips

Dialogue is like any other part of your story. It needs to move your story forward. It needs to be a part of tight writing.

It also helps reveal your characters’ character and allows a deeper connection between the character and reader.

So, what are five of the top tips to writing dialogue?

  1. Your dialogue must have a purpose.

As a children’s writer, I listen to how children talk. Having three grandsons, 3, 11, and 14, I know that a lot of what’s said is nonessential or fluff. And depending on the child, there could be a lot of goofing around and teasing (more fluff).

Your job as a writer is to choose dialogue that’s essential to the story and leave the fluff out.

Although, if you’re writing a silly story for kids then the ‘goofing’ around talk may be essential.

But overall, keep it lean and purposeful.

  1. Work on making your dialogue specific to the character.

What this means is that children each speak with a different tone. They use different words.

One may use ‘awesome’ for everything: “That pizza was awesome.”

Another may use “outstanding.”

Along with this how they talk is important. One character may have a gruff personality. That will come out in his dialogue also:

“Hey, didn’t I tell you to bring me some of. Thanks for nothing.”

Another character may have a sweet personality which will be reflected in her dialogue:

“Oh, I thought you were going to bring me some of that. I guess you forgot.”

So, from the words used and from the tone, you can distinguish your characters from one another to the reader.

Using this strategy will allow you to eliminate dialogue tags in some instances.

  1. A key factor of dialogue is the relationships between the characters.

How a boy talks to his brother will be different than how he talks to a girl, especially one he likes.

An example of this is:

Lucas glared at his brother. “Get out of my way.”

“Excuse me, Stacy. I need to get over there.”

Quite a difference, right.

The same goes for girls. How a girl talks to her mother will be different than how she’ll talk to her friend. How she talks to a brother will be different than how she speaks to her father.

Think about how you speak to the different people in your life. How I talk to my fourteen-year-old grandson is a lot different than how I talk to my three-year-old grandson.

Relationships are an important element when writing dialogue. Take into account who the character is talking to.

  1. Use tags correctly.

This is kind of basic, but use proper tags for dialogue.

The basic tags are “said” and “asked.” There are also other tags that you can use sparingly. They include:

  • shouted
  • suggested
  • added
  • mumbled
  • nagged
  • whined
  • demanded

As a children’s ghostwriter, I’ve gotten drafts from clients who use dialogue tags like, ‘laughed’ and ‘gasped.’

When writing your dialogue think about the tags.

You can’t ‘laugh’ dialogue and you can’t ‘gasp’ dialogue.

  1. Use physical action rather than ‘said.’

If you can show who’s talking by using a gesture or motion it will add more to the scene and allow you to lose the tag.

Here’s two examples:

Anthony kicked the dirt. “I’m mad!”

Julia brushed her hair off her shoulder. “I told him not to do that.”

Using ‘action tags’ allows you to break things up. It avoids the monotony of using ‘said’ all the time.

I hope these tips help you write stronger dialogue.

References

https://www.well-storied.com/blog/write-better-dialoguehttps://www.nownovel.com/blog/ways-to-say-said-simplify

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Whether you need ghostwriting or rewriting, let me take a look at your children’s story. Just send me an email at: kcioffiventrice@gmail.com. Please put “Children’s Writing” in the Subject box. Or, give me a call at 347—834—6700

Let’s get your idea off the launch pad or your outline into a publishable story today!

Or, if you’d rather give it a shot and do-it-yourself, check out my book, FICTION WRITING FOR CHILDREN.

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